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Aprendendo a viver o presente: Como cultivar a arte da atenção nos ajuda a florescer e prosperar

Você já percebeu como a mente está quase sempre em outro lugar? Entre reviver o passado e projetar ansiedades no futuro, ficamos desconectados do único tempo real que existe: o agora. Neste artigo, vamos explorar o que significa viver o presente, por que isso é tão difícil e como a psicologia pode ajudar você a cultivar essa habilidade tão essencial para o bem-estar.

Por que estamos longe do agora?

Nossa mente costuma:

  • Reviver situações do passado: “E se eu tivesse feito diferente?”
  • Projetar medos sobre o futuro: “E se isso der errado?”
  • Tentar controlar o que já passou ou o que ainda nem aconteceu.

Essa agitação mental exaure nossas emoções e nos afasta do momento presente, causando ansiedade, estresse e insatisfação.

O que dizem os filósofos sobre o tempo?

O tempo é um tema que sempre intrigou filósofos. Para Soren Kierkegaard, a vida oscila entre ansiedade pelo futuro e desespero pelo passado — o que nos mantém afastados do presente. Já Santo Agostinho, em suas Confissões, afirma que o passado não existe mais, o futuro ainda não chegou, e o presente é tudo o que temos — mesmo sendo um instante breve, é nele que vivemos, sentimos, aprendemos e crescemos.

Viver o presente: Por que é tão difícil?

Na prática clínica, identificamos algumas barreiras comuns que dificultam estar no agora:

  • Ressentimentos e feridas do passado, como traumas e mágoas não resolvidas
  • Preocupação excessiva com o futuro, gerando ansiedade e medo
  • Baixa autoestima e autoconfiança, que alimentam pensamentos limitantes
  • Condições emocionais e transtornos, como ansiedade, depressão e TDAH

Se você se reconhece, saiba que não está sozinho — e que é possível mudar essa realidade.

A atenção plena (mindfulness) como prática terapêutica

Mindfulness é a capacidade de focar no presente com curiosidade e aceitação, sem julgamento. Simone Weil disse:

“A atenção é uma forma de oração. É um milagre silencioso que nos liga ao que é real.”

Na prática, atenção plena é perceber o corpo, a respiração e os pensamentos no agora, ao contrário do piloto automático.

Como começar a viver no presente: 8 estratégias práticas

  1. Observe sua mente e traga-a gentilmente ao presente.
  2. Respire com consciência, usando a respiração como âncora.
  3. Faça pausas ao longo do dia e pergunte: “O que estou sentindo agora?”
  4. Reduza distrações digitais para se reconectar com o momento.
  5. Medite diariamente, mesmo que por cinco minutos.
  6. Desapegue do passado, buscando ressignificar suas experiências.
  7. Aceite a incerteza do futuro e confie no presente.
  8. Escreva um diário de gratidão para focar nas pequenas alegrias.

Quando o presente parece insuportável

Se você sofre com ansiedade intensa, crises de pânico ou pensamentos obsessivos, viver o presente pode ser muito difícil. A psicoterapia é uma ferramenta essencial para trabalhar essas questões, ajudando a elaborar o passado e construir um modo mais saudável de estar no agora.

O presente como ponto de partida para a cura

“O passado é memória. O futuro é imaginação. A vida acontece agora.”

Viver no presente não é imediato nem fácil — é um processo que exige prática, gentileza consigo mesmo e coragem. Mas é também onde encontramos liberdade, cura e verdadeira alegria.

Dunlhyan Arruda

Escritor e Acadêmico de Psicologia

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